After almost three weeks here I am getting quite comfortable in my new environment but I can name numerous people who didn’t experience the same. One of my fellow volunteers in Bolivia for example, always got really upset about the fact that everybody seemed to be late for appointments, and that work was sometimes so unorganized. Also the whistling of Latino men might sometimes seem intimidating if you’re coming from a Western country. And the driving…well…there’s really no words for that!
With no less than 12 volunteers arriving today (!!), I have no doubt that there will be some cultural clashes. Of course, when you’re here no one expects you to be a ´Tico´ straight away, and Fiorella, our coordinator, will definitely catch you when you fall, but doing a little research before you’re getting to a new country never hurts. Luckily for you, I saved you some time by doing the research for you. In the book ´Culture shock, survival guide to Customs and Etiquete´, Wallerstein describes (surprise surprise) what to be aware of when living in Costa Rica. I copied some of my favorite do´s and don´ts:
Do:
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Learn to love eating rice and beans three times a day
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Expect lots of very upfront interest from the opposite sex if you´re single and available (and even if not)
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Really make an effort to learn Spanish. Even though most Ticos can speak English, they will greatly appreciate your efforts, and you will have a much fuller experience of the country.
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Buy your fruit and vegetables at the local weekend feria rather than in the supermarket, much more fun. Learn to relax- things in Costa Rica can take ages, and raging against ´Tico Time´is pointless - you´ll just end up with high blood pressure.
Don´ts
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Don´t expect Costa Rica to be as ´First World´ as it may appear to be on the surface.
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Don´t eat turtle egg bocas - these are nearly always illegal, and are helping to drive the countries endangered sea turtles to extinction.
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Don´t miss out on a football (soccer) match. Following a particular team is a defining feature of many Tico´s lives, regardless of sex.
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Don´t block a fan´s view at a football match - social suicide in terms of soccer etiquette.
Of course, there is still a lot more to explore in this beautiful country, and you don´t want everything to be written out for you anyway, right? Running into odd situations is, in my point of view, still half the fun of being in another country!
Wallerstein, C. (2006) ¨Culture shock, survival guide to Customs and Etiquete¨Marshal Cavendish Corporation, NY
























































